Lawn-mowers and leaf-blowers strike up their tune much earlier in the mornings now that summer has arrived in the desert southwest. By the time I left for work on Monday, I noticed, with the same kind of resignation triple-digit temperatures bring every year, that our flower beds were empty, the freshly mown grass less green, and, where just weeks before long branches hung low and heavy with hot pink blooms, were almost-bare limbs exposed to the sky above our house.
I remember the uncharacteristically hot Spring day when our little family drove to a the Moon Valley nursery in search of a tree just like those which provided some shade during our weekend strolls through the Biltmore Fashion Park. At the time, this open-air mall boasted a row of what I finally learned were Hong Kong Orchids; my then three-year old loved to stand on the tips of her toes and stretch each of her piano-player fingers high into the sky, hoping to pluck one of the enticing pink blossoms that hung there, blooms I believe as worthy as lilies of Georgia O’Keefe’s attention.
So enchanted was Sophie by these, that she wanted a pink tree for our yard. Naturally, I had the perfect spot. Right in front of her bedroom window, she should have something magnificent to look out to every morning. Too, it would fill, at last, the space previously occupied for over seven decades by a grapefruit tree that had finally given up the ghost.
Sophie was at that tender age when she needed to and wanted to hold my hand everywhere we went, on a mission to find a stray cat, a hummingbird drinking from Mexican honeysuckle, or the pink tree, the one that was proving to be more elusive than we’d anticipated. The nursery was all out of mature orchid trees, and the saplings were wholly unimpressive. It was anti-climactic at best when we finally found, attached to a single green stalk, all of three feet tall and the width of my little finger, a price tag identifying it as the coveted Hong Kong orchid. Nary a bloom just a couple of leaves drooping sadly from the top of the stalk. The young man who sold it to me was very charming and assured me it would be providing “all kinds of shade” for us in no time. Skeptical, we bought it anyway, and off we went.
More to appease a tired little girl and her mother, than to show off any horticultural prowess, my husband planted and staked this skinny little excuse for a tree in the vacant spot. Then we began tending it. Like the watched kettle, it was naturally unresponsive to our vigilance. Then, almost magically, not unlike Sophie herself, it grew up all too quickly. Beautiful, independent, fragile and alert, with a strength that sometimes takes my breath away.
Bending and swaying just when it should, at all the right times over the past decade, our pink tree has survived scorching, record-breaking temperatures, frost, intense monsoons, and even a “haboob” in spite of our abandoning it for the cool Central coast of California. Unfazed, it was waiting for us when we returned as if to remind us that we live and move in its shadow.
This, my favorite tree, for many years, annually inspired a shock of petunias in the flower beds, the geraniums, fragrant pink stock, freesias, and snapdragons. Too, it played a role in the color of paint I chose for my front door – I had entirely too much fun mixing colors, one of which was “black raspberry” to create something that would work with our pink tree. And as I remembered this week while reading through old scrapbooks, this tree was the inspiration behind our daughter’s first foray into poetry for which she earned a blue ribbon and honorable mention in her grade school’s annual poetry contest.
Through all the beginnings and endings, the reminders of the fragility and fleetingness of life, and the finality of death, the pink tree abides. Transcendent.
Karen said:
I used to live in Florida where there were so many Hong Kong orchid trees…I can imagine how lovely yours is.
Yvonne said:
Thank you! I just visited your beautiful backroads blog. What a treasure!
Karen said:
Thank you Yvonne for visiting and your kind comment.
Facing Cancer (@cancer2gether) said:
Oh my goodness, you have an emerging writer in the family. The pinkness of this tree reminds me of spring and how the blossoms shake free and float through the air. Thanks for the memory, the poem, and this post.
Catherine
http://www.facingcancer.ca
Yvonne said:
Thank you Catherine!! Indeed, she’s coming into her own (my daughter, not the tree 🙂 ) with a great love for language. Looking forward to seeing where it will take her
yvonne
rannpx3 said:
I loved everything about this post. It was fun making the journey with you and your daughter to get the pink tree. I loved that you “rescued” the weaker one, and lovingly and thoughtfully placed it outside her window. I loved her poem.
Thank you for sharing this story, it was truly inspiring!
p.s. Curious – Did you actually end up using the Black-Raspberry paint on your front door? I love playing with paint colors too!
Yvonne said:
Well thank you so much!! I suppose I’m trying to reclaim “pink” in my own way!
As for the door … I really did. It’s awesome 🙂
candidaabrahamson said:
What a truly lovely, evocative, poetic piece. And it seems to be a genetically in inherited talent. What a jewel of a post.
Yvonne said:
Thank you for such a lovely comment!
Gretchen said:
Thanks for admitting to paper hoarding! I do it, too – my kids are 2 and almost 4 and already I love watching the changes in their drawing and printing.
Beautiful post 🙂
Yvonne said:
Thanks so much for stopping by, Gretchen. Keep making room (virtual and otherwise) for all the words and pictures that will continue to fill your home … and your heart. 🙂
y
betty watterson said:
This was the most beautiful piece of writing, from the visit to the nursery to find your tree to Sophie’s most wonderful poem, but I know that is the kind of writing Sophie does. I hope she goes from strength to strength; she is my very clever grand daughter. Yvonne you have put your words so beautifully, love always ma xxxxx
Jan Baird Hasak said:
This post just makes me smile. It’s full of color and life, and Sophie’s poetry makes it exquisite. Thanks for sharing an enduring legacy of hearty tree and writing ability. xx
Yvonne said:
Thank you, Jan! I just hope she keeps writing, because I think she has a gift for it. I’m not sure she’s overly thrilled about me sharing it, but I can’t help it 🙂
Liz said:
What a gorgeous post. All is forgiven, pink!! I am so glad to have discovered the word ‘haboob’ and hope to use it often (parallels with BC are already springing to mind…!!). And your daughter’s poem is just lovely.
Yvonne said:
Thanks, Liz! “Haboob”… the possibilities are endless, aren’t they?